We took some time to wander main street this afternoon, and and take in the ice sculptures. The theme this year was Frozen. We saw lots of little girls dressed up like Elsa and Anna. Even saw a mommy dressed up like Olaf.
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Daily Archives: January 31, 2015
What to Expect When You’re Expecting: Uncompromising Rigidity
How many of us are selfish and want our own way? (Yes, you better be raising your hand because we all are.)
![mr stubborn 2[1]](https://coachinator79.files.wordpress.com/2015/01/mr-stubborn-21.jpg)
Truth: When two people hop into a relationship, they are saying, “Hey, let’s do (at least some) stuff together.” They aren’t always going to agree and they aren’t always going to want to give in. Couples don’t have to do everything together. But if you never agree and never compromise then you aren’t in a relationship. You are roommates… maybe.
You cannot expect your partner to change or do things. We cannot change other’s – only ourselves. This means that you, yes you, must be the one to compromise. DON’T GIVE YOUR PARTNER A LOOK RIGHT NOW!
You have to be the one to change your mind.
When Andy and I first got married, I had a very definite way I wanted the house kept. When he didn’t meet that expectation, I had three options: divorce him, keep up the house myself with no expection for him to help, change my mind about how the house should be kept. Option 2 and option 3 are equally acceptable in this situation. Do not expect you partner to do anything. Either do it yourself or give up the expectation that it should be done.
Life and Photos by Andy 