What to Expect When You’re Expecting: This Ain’t No Hollywood Love Story

For some reason, Hollywood loves to present romance and love and all things relationship with the “all you need is love” mentality. Why do they do that to us? Love ain’t enough.all you need is Love

First of all, the older we get, the more our bodies change. We won’t be that wonderful combination of super model and girl next door forever. You can’t expect that a woman will pop out three kids and look like a Hollywood starlet. You can’t expect that a man will work like a dog to provide you with what you need and still have abs like he did when his life centered around working out and playing video games.

Snuggling: well, we all know that peoples limbs fall asleep and a chest isn’t as comfortable as a pillow. Sex is messy and life is hard and we all need a sleep number bed and maybe a CPAP someday so…. There’s that.

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image from the Notebook

Love is not grand romantic gestures and kissing in the rain. Do that sometimes if you can but remember that the best relationships are the ones that have a husband who makes coffee for his wife every morning and a wife that jumps up and kisses him as soon as he walks through the door every day. They are the ones who make each other a priority all the time and who just plain treat each other nice.220px-Serendipity_poster

What has your experience been? Have you been as frustrated with Hollywood’s portrayal of love as I have?

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6 thoughts on “What to Expect When You’re Expecting: This Ain’t No Hollywood Love Story”

  1. There is absolute truth in these last two posts. From an early age we see the “fantasy” stories and life just isn’t like that. I loved what you said about the simple things, making coffee and affection…it’s those things that make for a meaningful relationship. Huge smiles to you.

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